I've heard people say that Star Trek saved their life and, having found Star Trek when I was in a very dark place myself, I believe them. I can make this statement about myself and know in my heart just how true it is.
But I didn't come to be a fan of Leonard Nimoy via Star Trek; I became a Star Trek fan via Leonard Nimoy. When I was 19, my friend Kathie took me to see Mr. Nimoy in the play "Vincent", knowing how important Van Gogh is to me as a painter and as a human being. It was this performance that made me fall in love with Leonard Nimoy; my love affair with Spock came later.
Today, Leonard Nimoy lost his long, agonizing fight with COPD, a terrible, debilitating, energy sucking disease. For him, I can only think it is a blessing that his suffering is over. For his wife, children and the rest of his family, I understand that the blessing was to have him in your lives and, in time, that will come to be the warmth in your heart that I'm sure feels ripped away right now.
I feel blessed myself, having had the opportunity to meet him in person several times and to see him at many conventions over the years. He was a kind, generous man. I had been to many conventions in and around Los Angeles before I went to SpaceTrek 3 in St. Louis where he was a guest. I took my very treasured trade paperback copy of "I Am Not Spock" for him to autograph. He took the book as he looked up at me and said: "Hey, you came out here all the way from L.A.?" He then asked about the book because, at the time, that format of the book was nearly impossible to find. That he recognized my face -- or my unruly hair -- stunned me and had me walking on air all the way home to California. A bit later, I was at a convention in Los Angeles and had an unusual picture of him from "Marco Polo" for him to autograph. He was pleased and surprised that I had such a picture and took the time to ask why I chose it above pictures of him as Spock for him to sign. I don't recall my exact response -- I'm surprised I did more than blather -- but it was something to the tune of: "You're more than just Mr. Spock to me".
And he was. If you've seen "Vincent", then you know that Mr. Nimoy played Vincent's brother Theo van Gogh in the one-man play. It mostly consists of Theo reading letters that served as a deep communication between the brothers. You will also know how passionate Mr. Nimoy was about Vincent himself, not just the play by that title. He even did an episode of "In Search Of..." on Vincent, which remains one of my favorites of his projects.
If you haven't seen "Vincent", there are clips from it on YouTube and I think you can find the full play -- it was filmed -- on eBay or elsewhere. It's worth the search. I like to say that when I walked into the theater and realized it was "that guy who plays Mr. Spock" in "Vincent", I wasn't much impressed but that five minutes into the play, I was sitting in Leonard Nimoy's palm and that I've ever been far from that spot since.
Leonard Nimoy was more than Mr. Spock to me, though I can assure you that Mr. Spock also played a tremendous role in my life. Mr. Nimoy was a conduit between my own, private, teenage Vincent Van Gogh obsessed self and the larger world *out there*, outside myself, outside my own brain and heart. He confirmed my opinion of Van Gogh, he shared my obsession in such a way that it seemed as though he'd drawn all the love, admiration and knowledge I had for Vincent directly from my head. It was a very comforting thing to experience at such a young age.
It was only a few months after I discovered "Vincent", that I fell into the gloriously rich, life-affirming, welcoming, positive, exiting, adventurous world of Star Trek and only a few months after that that I discovered the amazing world of fandom that has given my life so much sustenance for over 30 years.
There's so much more to say about this great man who left us today to join his exceptional Self to the galactic starstuff but all I can do today is remember; finding the right words to eulogize him will come in time. For now, I am proud to say that I will continue to love Leonard Nimoy for the rest of my life, a life that he made possible by being the man he was and sharing himself with the world.
Rest In Peace, my friend. We will meet again.
